Question 1

What's the actual difference between a birth flower and an anniversary flower?

Accepted Answer

A birth flower is tied to the month someone was born. An anniversary flower is tied to how many years a couple has been married, following a traditional list that dates back to the Victorian era.

Question 2

Is there a traditional flower for every single year, or just milestones?

Accepted Answer

Just milestones, mainly 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 40, and 50. Years outside that list don't have an officially designated flower, so most people default to roses or a personally meaningful flower instead.

Question 3

What if the traditional flower for our year isn't available?

Accepted Answer

Ask your florist for a substitute with similar meaning, or lean more heavily on the birth flower option instead, since birth flowers don't have the same narrow seasonal windows some traditional anniversary flowers do.

Question 4

How much should an anniversary bouquet typically cost?

Accepted Answer

A standard arrangement for an early anniversary year usually runs $75 to $150. Milestone anniversaries with larger arrangements or event-style displays can run $200 or more depending on scale.

Question 5

Is it weird to skip the traditional flower and just use birth flowers instead?

Accepted Answer

Not at all. The traditional list is a starting point, not a rule, and plenty of couples never use it at all, going straight to birth flowers or whatever holds personal meaning for them. The tradition matters far less than the gesture behind it.

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